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iPhone is the new smoking

by Heather

I live in California where most of my friends don’t smoke.

When I was in college, my boyfriend smoked though, and I remember what it’s like to walk up to a cool smoker who’s waiting some place for you. He’s leaning and he’s smoking and he’s oh-so-relaxed.

Nowadays, when I’m waiting for you, I’m likely to be heads-down furtively thumb-clicking (or side-stroking) my iPhone looking at my photos, reading my emails, double-checking a map, or listening to my voicemail. If only I could move away from my handy purse-size whomi, I’d be updating my calendar too. It’s not exactly relaxing but it takes the edge off of a late-arriving friend (or even if someone ducks into the restroom during a dinner date).

And that’s why I said to Alec, “iPhone is the new smoking.” It’s what all those cool waiting-around geeks are playing with as they lean against walls waiting for their buses. I wonder what my ex would say if he could see me now.


I got an iPhone as a gift from my job. I like it way more than I thought I would. New moms, if you can indulge in such a luxury, it will radically change your nursing behavior.

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Mabel’s Labels are all that and a bag of chips

by Heather

Since I tried my little sample pack of the Mabel’s Labels that work on clothes and plasticky bottles and food containers, I have not looked back. I wasn’t sure that I would really like these things… in fact, I’ve tried a fair number of home-grown substitutions.

Three reasons to love them:

  • Each boy has a symbol so that even pre-readers can find their stuff: Milo is a little airplane and Holden is a little dog (sad but true)
  • Dishwasher safe. Over and over… in a way that my Sharpies are not and my contraband label-maker labels (from a previous company long since disbanded) don’t seem to be.
  • Slurp-resistant. Most importantly, they survived the loving but incredibly intense slurps of a nine-month old on his naptime lovey. This was the area in which I didn’t want to take any chances.


This Thursday only, Mabel is celebrating a fifth birthday with a special promotion:
Orders placed between 12:00am and 11:59pm EDT on Thursday March 27th will be shipped with a coupon for free Sticky Labels, the original product that started it all.
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The good folks at Mabel’s Labels sent us a sample of their product four months ago. I would not say I loved it if I hadn’t thoroughly tested it.

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How do you say “quesadilla” in Spanish?

by Whitney

At Julian’s preschool, the two lead teachers speak a lot of Spanish to the kids. The program is loosely English in the morning, Spanish in the afternoon. Being in California, this is not some crazy special language program, it is just one aspect of our preschool that I see as a benefit.

I loved learning Spanish growing up. I completed a Spanish minor in college and spent two summers wandering around south of the border with friends, taking languages classes in Mexico and Guatemala. Julian’s first plane trip was to Mexico at 6 months, and he’s been back twice since then. I had been thinking that his exposure to Spanish at this age was both fun and effective.

He seems to think otherwise.

He has one nighttime babysitter who speaks mostly Spanish and little English. He has recently started to get frustrated by this. At first, he seemed to love playing “How do you say (insert word) in Spanish? ” with her. I was pleased. Before she came over, he would say, “When Ana gets here, I’m going to ask her how to say quesadilla in Spanish!” he would tell me excitedly. Then, it wore off. He became annoyed, perhaps because he was tired at the end of the day, with the difficulty they were having communicating. He told me he didn’t want her to come over because she speaks Spanish.

whistlefritzYesterday, I popped in a Whistlefritz DVD, “Los Animales” targeted at ages 2-5. At first, Julian watched happily, I think not realizing the video was entirely in Spanish. I was enjoying it, understanding every word and thinking it would be fun to loan the DVD to my Spanish teacher friend. The narrator was very clear with her expressions and the animations, so it’s easy to catch on. After about 10 minutes, Julian said he wanted to watch something else. He was disappointed that the video was in Spanish.

To my chagrin, he is on an English-only kick. I should sign him up for one of those conservative groups that don’t want bilingual signs posted. The other night, I said something to him in Spanish, and he responded “You’re not a teacher or a babysitter!” in a snotty voice. Uh-oh. I had to immediately point out all the people we know who speak Spanish who are not teachers or babysitters. How embarrassed am I! I am a lover of all things Latin and my son is campaigning for English only! Que lastima.

I have to remind myself that he is three and just wants things his way. Just like girls have ponytails and boys don’t. He does not like me to point out boys that have ponytails or girls that have short hair.

I will try to be patient. And I will book us on another Mexican vacation ASAP.

PS On the way to school this morning, he did tell me, “You know how you say Blast Off in Spanish, Mommy? BLAST OFFFFFF!”

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Maybe other Parent Bloggers had better luck getting their kids to sit through Whistlefritz’s other Spanish for beginners videos. See what they have to say.

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Ending the compact like I ended the South Beach Diet

by Heather

bike trailerAt the end of my “One Month without Buying Anything New” kick, I felt pretty good. It wasn’t very hard for me. I felt like I could continue forever… or at least for the self-imposed year of not buying new stuff that Real Compacters sign on for (or more realistically something like a season).

I bought a non-nursing bra (completely allowable under the underwear clause) and scored a free used toddler bed from a friend. We still need some new shoes and miscellaneous shoe repairs (darn those half size too big pregnancy feet!!) but that’s allowable too. I had also thrown a clothing swap mid-month, so I was feeling pretty good about clothing options.

I felt like at the end of the South Beach Diet when I started to think that I could just eat whole grain carbs and low glycemic index food all the time without really caring. That is, I felt that way until I saw a box of Krispy Kreme donuts unattended.

So, I was feeling happy with my network of freebies and good access to high quality used stuff in general, when I started to want things!! Uh oh. Like, I sent Holden to a Three-Year-Old girls birthday party yesterday and we bought a little suitcase with drawing paper and crayons. It was cute and it was less than $10, but I had to ask myself if that was really worth breaking the compact over? Hmmm.

But I figured that I had made it an extra 7 days already of not shopping with very little discomfort and it had to end some time. In other words (in South Beach Diet words), I rationalized that I had met my goal weight and I was now in maintenance phase. No biggie.

Today is when I really had to start questioning my goals and ideals though. I brought Holden to the bike store to pick out a new bike helmet so we could start riding the boys to school in the trailer.

Side story: Holden and Milo go to daycare/preschool close to our home. I work close to their school. We’d like to bike them to school and bike them home rather than me driving each way. How environmentally friendly of us, no?

It was at the bike store when I saw it: A new AND ON SALE Burley d’lite bike trailer. Certainly this was much better and safer (and shinier and prettier) than the well-worn hand-me-down in our backyard. Obviously saving well over $100 on a new thing is a worthy purchase. Or was I trying too hard to convince myself?

Then again, isn’t a used bird in the hand worth a new bird in the bush? As compact-minded people, don’t we have to keep our good enough trailer? Or at least be absolutely sure we’ll get good use out of it before we drop a few hundred dollars on a new toy? That’s what Alec would have me believe.

So I struggle. And hope that nobody buys that shiny rocket ship of a bike trailer while we make up our minds. Anyone else out there in a similar boat?

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Thumbs up for High Five

by Heather


How many of the board books in your house have you memorized?
Half of them? All of them?

I think I have all our board books memorized. In fact, I even have the same tone and rhythm for certain books so that they sound funny to me when I hear my husband read in his own way. Sad but true.

An easy remedy to Crazy-lady-memorizes-board-books-itis is to get all new books. A more reasonable solution is finding a great (preschooler) magazine to come once a month and bring new stories into your world.

High Five Magazine is the little sister magazine of Highlights from when we were kids (or maybe it’s the grandchild… since Highlights is 60 this year!). About a week before I was given a High Five subscription (via Parent Bloggers Network), we got a little sampler copy in the mail.

The sampler included four sets of hidden pictures with varying degrees of difficulty. I had a blast trying to find the paintbrush in the secret location and — just like I try my best not to assemble Holden’s puzzles for him — I tried to be encouraging while not giving all the answers away. He liked finding the pictures and he really liked circling them with a pencil (”Big boys can use pencils, Milo can’t use this pencil”).

hiden pictures beginner styleWhen we got the full magazine, it had other puzzles and short stories (including a regular feature in Spanish with phonetic pronunciation). Holden really liked going through the activities, poems, and looking at the craft projects.

His favorite pages, by far, are all about the pictures. For example, we must have read through a 2-page story about a construction site about 7 times in a row (so he could memorize the rhyming pairs) because he is really into “workers” right now. Unfortunately, he was almost inconsolable when he realized that the book with the train on the cover had absolutely nothing (else) to do with trains. Poor thing was trying to judge a book by the cover… sorry Holden, this is a magazine! The rules are different.

High Five is much better as a wake-your-brain-up-while-sitting-still activity than a bedtime story. Alec likes that he and Holden can sit down for some quiet time on the weekend and noodle on a few brainteasers while we’re housebound during Milo’s morning nap. I like to see him thinking and problem solving — basically going beyond the “which animal is the penguin?” problems we’ve been throwing at him. His brain is stretching in a new way, which is cool.

Of course, he can’t figure out all of the activities and that causes some amount of frustration, but heck, the kid’s not even 3 yet and the magazine is good until age 5. And that also gives me a chance to 1) practice my restraint and 2) praise him for his efforts and not just his talents (the verb and not the noun).

Related Links:
> Check out High Five Magazine for a two- to five-year-old that you love.
> Find out with other Parent Bloggers think and join the blog blast on 3/7 to win your own subscription (to either High Five or Highlights).

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The fine print: I was sent a subscription of High Five in order to provide a review for you. My opinion is my own. I don’t even know if Whitney agrees with me. I think educational magazines are good gifts for kids, especially ones with too many toys already. I also wrestled with the title of my post and decided that “High five for High Five” was too embarrassing.

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A little rant on scary plastics and a favorite baby bottle

by Heather

First, let me acknowledge that buying the Good and Non-Toxic baby bottles are super expensive. But that the alternative is really scary.

Born FreeBack in September, I read Mom 101’s post on how Plastic #7 is the new 666 and I decided to take very small and limited action. After using the evil polycarb bottles unknowingly on my first son, I couldn’t continue the trend in good consciousness. Even my cheap frugal husband agreed, we needed to get some safer baby bottles.

So we got the BornFree Trainer (sippy) cup model and bought the extra pack of bottle nipples so that we could get more bang for the buck: a large bottle shaped bottle that Milo could one day hold himself without any additional cash outlay! The handles come off and the mouthpieces are interchangeable. We felt pretty brilliant.

When he was around 7 months old, Milo started drinking bottles more regularly (first the breastmilk, then the breastmilk formula cocktail); around 10 months old we auditioned him on the sippy lid then backed off; and now at almost 12 months, he’s exclusively on the sippy nipple. Bravo us. The experiment worked.

Safe, smart, scary-plastic free. What a good mommy I must be. Too bad that when our two BornFrees are dirty, I still resort to those ancient Avents.

What you can do:

  1. Buy safer bottles like the Born Free Trainer Cup.
  2. Sign a petition to show you care about safer baby products: League of Maternal Justice
  3. Learn more about bpa-free bottles and cups on the SafeMama Cheat Sheet.

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Cheaping out in Berkeley

by Heather

I started “no buying new things” month on Friday. And it’s going pretty well. Except for I’m not exactly saving money since things like “expensive exercise class” are not *things* and are allowable.

Some highlights:

  • I found a never-worn skirt in my closet for my fancy dinner date with Alec. I even wore it with the tags on in case it didn’t work out so I could make it look more desirable at the clothing swap (but that was weird of me).
  • Talked two co-workers into joining me on my mission and we celebrated by eating lunch out at a restaurant. At least it wasn’t take-out but maybe we should have walked to the cafe if we’re really trying to reduce our global footprint. Hmmm.
  • My sister-in-law birthed a brand new (VBAC, you go girl!) niece for me on Friday and I’ve assembled a nice gift box of a home-made baby wrap, baby necessities (like infant tylenol and zinc), and a gift certificate for food.
  • No other shopping. Yet.

I also found a great list for fresh inspiration on making toys out of ordinary objects Unclutterer.com; Milo’s first birthday is this month, so he may be cashing in on this find.This site has so many good ideas to clean up my life. If I get around to it. Maybe while I’m lying around the house not buying new stuff this month, I’ll make time? Nah.

Ok, now that I think of it, we have a bunch of related RM activities:
Activity #221: Play choo choo in a laundry basket
Activity #222: Have a (yoga) ball
Activity #80: Fake em out
Activity #123: Introduce the Tupperware

And then there’s the whole free/cheap ideas category for outings and non-toy fun.

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So, when do I need to stop using the exersaucer so much?

by Heather

exersaucer

My second son, Milo, is a very active 11 months now. He likes to climb, pull up, scoot all the time.

But that sort of gets in the way of my plans for him.

Our normal getting out of the car routine includes me bringing him inside the house, plopping him into the exersaucer or jumperoo (depending on what room of the house I want him to be in), and going back outside to fetch Holden from the car so we can wrestle with shoes, jackets, and stuff. I like Milo to be safely contained (and possibly entertained) while this is going on. But am I relying on these crutches too much?

Do I need switch things around and let the two-year old come in the house first? Should we all enter together and forget about the stuff? How old is too old for the exersaucer? Can I wait until he can climb out of it or tell me in words that he’s sick of it?

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Purge, don’t binge

by Whitney

Since Heather is doing one of her crazy I-have-lots-of-systems-and-rules projects again (see post below), I am going to try to support her. She wants to buy nothing new in February. Have fun with that, H.

I won’t mock the fact that you are buying extra stuff now in preparation of not buying anything later.

I respect her project and hate to throw away landfill-bound crap like an infant bathtub or cell phone charger for a phone I no longer use, so, inspired by Heather, I’m sort of on a Craig’s List/Freecycle kick myself. We are about to move into a 3-month furnished sublet while our house is demolished, er, remodeled, and I don’t want to pack up, move, unpack, repack, move and unpack anything I don’t really need.

So I have been packing up clothes, donating baby blankets, selling stuff on Craig’s List, and hoping for the rain to stop so that I can put a “free” box in front of my house with some cast-off items in it. Even with this attitude, I find it hard to work quickly through my piles of posessions. I get caught up in where things should go, wondering if I’ll miss them later. We’ve lived in this house for five years and have boxes of books and CDs that we never unpacked from our last house, but still somehow believe we should own. I sit down to attack a pile and get sidetracked by a million different aspects of this process. Clearly my process is faulty.

Here’s an example: I look at a vase. I think, “I don’t like this much now. Maybe I’ll like it later.” And then I look for a place to store it. On my way to looking for a place, I spot some things that seem easier to pack than the vase I don’t care for. I pick them up. Do you see the downward spiral happening? Do you think I should keep a vase that is nice, but just not my taste?

Today I saw this collection of books at Barnes and Noble. Boy was I tempted to buy all of them. I know Heather and I would have a lot of fun with a Closet Organizing book that comes with a DVD (birthday hint!) But then I remembered that I shouldn’t bring anything new into my house.


It’s All Too Much: An Easy Plan for Living a Richer Life with Less Stuff


Closet Control: The Ultimate Guide to Revitalizing Your Wardrobe and Revolutionizing the Way You Store It (Book & DVD)


Absolutely Organized: A Mom’s Guide to a No-stress Schedule and Clutter-free Home

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Say Thank You in Style

by Karen

Little Author NotecardThe Little Author will make professional note cards out of your kid’s artwork. You can scan artwork that’s up to 11×17 inches, which they will shrink down for you, and you can enter whatever text you want. Of course, they come with matching envelopes.

I would be dead impressed if I went to a kid’s birthday party and got one of these back as a thank you note. I would think that kid had some of the cleverest parents around! At $15 for 10 note cards, I definitely feel it’s worth it to go this route instead of trying to make them yourself at Kinko’s or something. I would absolutely use the service, and I’m a person who has a) no kids and b) plenty of time to go to Kinko’s.

If you’re willing to splurge, you can get also get a 24-page hardcover book for $68. Check it out at theLittleAuthor.com

Related Rookie Mom Activities:
Activity #250: Make personalized thank you notes
Activity #337: Use your baby for greetings
Activity #506: Facilitate thank you notes with a personal *touch*


Thanks to Karen for this fun discovery.

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